Monday, November 26, 2007
LEAH-CHAN @ 4:22 PM
Mood: Contented
Music: NONE [In class, semi-listening & taking down notes]
Konnichiwa minna-san!
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder"
This phrase means that when you're away from your 'love', you find yourself missing him/her more and more. Ever wonder if he/she is THE ONE? I know we're only teenagers so in my opinion, THE ONE usually doesn't arrive yet. You have the whole life of yourself ahead of you, so it doesn't mean that the person that you're with is THE ONE - right now at this moment and in your mind, forever and will be.
HOWEVER, starting early won't kill anyone. Start finding now before it's too late is also the mindset of many teenagers these days. I won't 'diss' anyone for their mindset. I mean, we are who we are. But I thought that it won't kill to give a little advice.
*hangs head in shame* I know! I don't have the experience to give me the right to give out any advice! But...I've been getting alot of friends having problems with either their boyfriend/girlfriend dumping them for another.
My advice? Life's like that. All we can do is curse the person to the next century and move on with our lives. If you continue to lament in the past and not look forward to the future, then it'll not only make you irritate others, it'll also make you - not the person you're cursing - look pathetic.
If you feel that you and your significant other drifting further and further apart and your heart doesn't feel the pain - honestly, look inside your heart. Don't feel sad because you yearn for a person to love; to be with. If you truly feel that way, then that person may be the person for you. But if you don't feel anything, then don't lament in this. Give it a few weeks then if still nothing, don't wave around.
I know I kinda sound bad. >.< Gomen ne...I guess I can't really put it out in words on a paper - or in this case, a laptop...
But waving around is kinda giving the other person a false sense of hope. IF you are at the end (the one HAVING the false sense of hope) and the person isn't feeling anything else, DON'T FORCE!
Seriously, it'll make you look, once again, pathetic.
Letting go is part and parcel of life. So this is a way for us to learn the hardships and enjoy the things life has to offer. Oh my god, I sound old! Lolz
Anyway, I'm heading off already!
Ja ne!
Leah-chan
P.S. I'm thinking of starting a new story! Romance, duh! Any helpers? =)
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Name: Leah-chan
Schooling In: Nanyang Polytechnic
Course: Multimedia & Infocommunications Technology, School of Information Technology
Birthday: 21st December 1990
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I'm bi-polar i think.
One day, I'm happy and the next, I'm totally different.
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I love music. It is my whole life. I can't survive with it.
I hope to be able to play the drums or guitar (electric) [that's once i have enough money to buy one].
I'm currently into Japanese music, and I love mixing their fashion with my own taste! ^_^
My new love is dancing, alongside singing, acting, writing romance fiction and creating fashion styles.
It allows me to express myself when I can't.
It relieves me from my stress.
Overall, I love dancing - I just need to get a confidence for it.
Hanging out with friends is another plus in my life. Friends, to me, equals to loyalty and honesty.
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